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We met May 22, 2010 and enjoy going through life together even on the bad days because they make the best ones even better! We enjoy cake and going on walks. Contradictory, we know. We ride horses, play chess, and try to make room for homework.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Dilemma

James and I met in the testing center here at BYU. He works there while at the beginning of the semester I lived there. We saw eachother alot and one time I accidently forgot scratch paper for a test. So I raised my hand and he ran up and gave me a huge smile and high-five. I was completely thrown off. I just asked him if I could get up and go get scratch paper but he made me stay in my seat and got it for me. After that we ran into eachother at the Ricks Building becasue I opened the door to go in and he accidently touched my hand. (I think) Then I smiled and he said "you!" and gave me a crooked smile. He went to his class while I raced up the stairs. After I saw him a few times he disappeared. I didn't see him for 2 weeks and finally he joins my friends michelle and I as we walk to the Ricks building. He zoomed next to me and hit my arm with his elbow. Then I teased him if he enjoyed his disapperance act. He simply said " I just didn't want you to think that I was stalking you because we see eachother alot. And I don't want you to think I am a creeper like alot of other guys." (moi) "Well I appreciate your efforts but I wouldn't mind seeing you." (Green flag for him) "Oh okay." Then some how we agreed to walk together after class to the spori. So now we walk together and make fun of eachother and have eloquent arguements. One time he didn't wait long for me because my class got out late. He was probably 50ft in front of me and he kept looking back to find me. I hid behind people because I thought it was funny, and cute that he would keep looking for me. Recent issue began on Monday. Transformers came out on wednesday and we both wanted to see it. He went and saw it on wednesday morning with his buddies. I waited until wednesday to buy my ticket to see if he would ask me to join him since he knew I wanted to go. Wednesday comes and he says "I got a transformers date." (moi) "Who is the chickadee?" "Uh...its a man date actually." (moi)"Oh okay." "Why are you jealous?" (moi) "No! I am not jealous!" "I am sorry jessica but I cannot walk with you all the way to the spori because of my man date today." I pretend to cry with snuffles "(sobbing), I am so sad! I can't walk with James all the way to the spori today!" He laughs and as we part he stretches out his hand towards me and cries out my name multiple times. Cracked me up!!! The kid is hilarious!!! So should I ask him to chill or should I wait it out? I already had this situation before with Star Trek. And he didn't ask me. You choose his fate, I am just tired of taking charge. But I still am confused.

3 comments:

Rochelle said...

Well he DOES sound really cute by his actions. And a good relationship allows man dates....and you're NOT dating yet so why shouldn't he go with his cronies? I say give him a chance....don't rush it....be friends...don't have expectations and you won't be disappointed when they're not met. Enjoy your day and be happy even if he's not in it that day. I know how cute and funny you are. Daniel loves this about you! Don't hang your happy self on someone else. You are Happy because you are YOU! A bubble of cheer running around on campus...I see your sweet shiny smile right now! Love ya!

Shannon said...

IDK... I'd say let him make the move. He obviously wants to. Guys get nervous asking ladies out. I agree with Rochelle about not having expectations.

Jenny-Jenny said...

Just chill. Enjoy the friendship and don't push it. I know it's hard, but you will appreciate it so much more if you just be yourself and don't expect a "relationship". Love you!